New update! Ok I found out how to get the standard drivers, however I still have an issue. But I think showing this may help OBSiV point out some issues in the future.
When I go to device manager ->

Right click on CSR bluetooth chip -> Properties -> Update Driver

Browse my computer for driver software ->

Then click let me pick from a list of device drivers on my computer ->

Notice how the CSR one is already selected. For me to get the bluetooth software, I had to click on Generic Bluetooth Adapter!!! Then it will install the bluetooth software you need (The default one).

Ok, but I still can't get my XIM to pair now!
I click on the bluetooth icon in the taskbar and click add device and nothing shows up, even after I hit P on my XIM4. I've tried everything. Restarting my computer and resetting my XIM4. Even though I'd like to get this to work, is there a bluetooth dongle that has worked for other people that I can try out?