You need to make sure to add /commander to the shortcut of xim manager. (right click shortcut click properties)
the target should read like this
"C:\Program Files (x86)\XIM Technologies\XIM4\XIM4 Manager.exe" /commander
after that, when it runs it should just show the xim logo spinning, now is when you run XIM4 Commander
if you did all that and still nothing, the belkin cable might not have downloaded the driver automatically.
check under device manager > transfer cable devices