For a supposedly social game, they seem to err every time on the side of making sure nobody will ever have a bad experience with anyone else in the world. No proxomity chat, no communication in social zones... I wish they would just let us talk and give people the option to mute single players or everyone if they didn't want to mingle. Yes, sometimes people will say nasty words or be jerks, but these things happen. You can't control the world, and it's not a very social game as it is.
it's a social game aimed at a lot of people who cannot deal with socialization. either for being the jerk or being bothered by them, it's people who are socially awkward. that's the stereotype of gamer these days.
i very much agree with you, CS' old days were people talking freely and semi-anonimous on pubs and those were the days.. even in private servers i rarely had to pull out my admin powers because of chat, people would just man up. granted, trolling those days wasn't like now. but we would also punish trolls hard..
oh the rage i had because people would start to yell on their mics for someone (me) to shut up instead of muting me in 2 seconds.. i would make them climb walls until they learned to mute others, then proceeded to quit acting like a buffoon and returning to being nice. didn't always work, but at least it was fun.
i just don't get people. Dark souls has basically non existent communication and control, people are the biggest jerks to each other on a common basis and yet... no one cries about it. everyone gets it, deals with it their way, moves on to have fun. Borderlands has the proximity chat and i don't see jerks talking there, they may act like idiots but rarely bother talking like one. and if they push their luck - kick, next - solved.
these days it seems educating others, or punishing them for their offenses is violent. it's like people putting trolls and jerks in their place are sacrificing jews. and then the consequence is israel massacring palestinians in a way hittle would be proud. it's an uber fail and stupid. all on the account of goo'old fashion greed..